Another great weekend for Camp Erin Pittsburgh

This past weekend, well over 100 kids and teenagers spent a few days at YMCA Camp Kon-O-Kwee Spencer, participating in all the fun, traditional, high-energy activities one expects at a summer camp. This camp, however, also included grief education, peer bonding and emotional support.

Good Samaritan Hospice (GSH), a mission of Concordia Lutheran Ministries, hosted Camp Erin Pittsburgh, an overnight bereavement camp for children and adolescents who have lost a loved one. (Make sure to check out some pictures from the weekend below!)

Camp Erin was free thanks to generous support from businesses, foundations and individuals. Some of these included the Pittsburgh Pirates, McElwain Motors, Ascension Lutheran and First Presbyterian Church of Beaver. Special thanks to New York Life for their monetary contribution as well as for sending many of their staff members, both current and retired, to help out.

This fun-filled camp provides a safe, caring place for grieving children to share feelings with others who have experienced a similar loss. They offer a combination of supportive discussion, crafts and recreational activities to help campers strengthen coping skills.

Camp Erin is a collaboration between The Moyer Foundation – a nonprofit organization founded by World Series Champion Jamie Moyer and his wife Karen – and GSH.

This year’s camp was a major success thanks to the approximately 130 volunteers, the camp staff, Moyer Foundation, GSH staff, donors and, of course, the campers. It was another year to remember!

For more information on the bereavement camps or Good Samaritan Hospice’s compassionate end of life care, call 724.933.8888, visit GSH on the Web or e-mail us here.

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Humble Beginnings: A Child’s Life in the Orphanage

In celebration of Concordia’s 130+ years of service, we periodically post excerpts from our history book. In case you haven’t seen any of our “Humble Beginnings” posts before, Concordia started as an orphanage in 1881. The excerpt below gives a first-hand account of life at the orphanage – the good and the not so good – from a woman who lived here as an orphaned child and then as a resident later in life. Enjoy, and leave a comment if you like. :)

… Reading through the journal entries and the minutes of the Board meetings, it makes one appreciate what a feat of perseverance and strength and faith it was for the Home to survive its challenges and develop over 125 years into the extensive and self-sufficient organization it is today.

In the beginning, the children were the focus of everyone’s efforts. Unlike many orphanages of the time, the Home was always able to feed the residents well and provide for most of their needs. Of course, living on a farm also meant that each child was expected to pitch in and help, and so was assigned chores to complete. Older girls took care of the younger children or worked in the kitchen, laundry, or in similar domestic activities. Boys were responsible for taking care of the farm animals, milking cows, helping with the harvesting, or doing more labor-intensive chores.

Sara Bachman describes a typical day in a child’s life in the Home:

“In the winter, one of the older boys arose at 4:30 a.m. and fired the stoves so that the buildings would be warm at the 6:30 rising bell. At 6:00, several boys crawled out of their warm beds and were soon headed for the barn where they helped with the milking, feeding, tending chickens, and other chores. Breakfast was served at 7:00 and devotions were held as soon as that meal was finished. After breakfast, beds were made, floors were swept, furniture dusted, and one boy started for his daily trip to Marwood to collect mail. By 9:00, all school-age children were in class where they studied until 11:30. At noon, a substantial meal was served and at 1:30 the afternoon session of school began. After school, there was barn work for the boys and kitchen and housework for the girls. There was also a time for outdoor recreation.

“Supper came at 5:30 and the period after supper was spent in studies, games, hobbies and, on the occasion of a birthday, a birthday party with cake and lemonade or cocoa. Hobbies were encouraged. Most of the children led happy, well-adjusted lives.”

The school curriculum mirrored that of the public school system with the addition of classes related to the Bible and the Lutheran catechism. All the children completed eighth grade. Reflecting the times, boys who demonstrated a gift for learning were permitted to attend high school and junior colleges. Girls were not encouraged to advance their education; rather, as Miss Bachman relates, “Most of them found work at the Home or as maids or domestic workers in private homes.”

Mr. Lensner, and later Mr. Adolph Pflueger, along with Mr. A. Paar, each served several years as the schoolteacher. Dave Beaver, whose mother, Maria Weber, along with two sisters and a brother entered the Home in 1903, recounts his Aunt Anna’s memories of the Home, as told to her son, James Andrews:

Anna was to remember those years at the orphanage with mixed emotions. She thought Herr H. M. Lensner, who ran the orphanage, was Moses incarnate in the skin of a stern German Lutheran elder. There was harsh punishment for minor offenses. Treating a child in that fashion today would be called child abuse, but 90 years ago spanking was the reasonable alternative to exorcism. … When she was 86 and reminiscing on her early childhood, Mother laughed and said, “Yes, they were strict, but we only got caught occasionally. Oh, we got away with a lot, so I guess it came out to be about even.”

The number of children in the Home would fluctuate over the years. Initially, most were referred to the Home from the Pittsburgh pastors and had been baptized by them. Many children, however, had either a very tenuous or no tie at all with a supporting church. In addition, no sooner had the Home opened than it was approached by the Pittsburgh Board for the Poor, which asked the Home to receive its orphans, an arrangement which continued for 21 years until it became too problematic to house these orphans. While only five children total entered in 1883, 44, including seven from the Poorhouse, entered in 1884.

These numbers grew and waned over the years as society’s views on this issue changed:

1908: 40 girls and 49 boys
1920: 43 girls and 33 boys
1930: 27 girls and 33 boys
1941: 27 children total
1958: Concordia stops providing care for children

By the time the last orphan left in 1958, Concordia had cared for over 1,000 children.

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Founded more than 130 years ago, Concordia Lutheran Ministries is a faith-based, CARF-CCAC accredited Aging Services Network and recipient of the inaugural Pennsylvania Department of Aging Excellence in Quality Care Award. As one of the 50 largest nonprofit senior care providers in the country, the organization serves over 20,000 people annually through home care and inpatient locations. Concordia offers a lifetime continuum of care that includes adult day services, home care, hospice, medical and rehabilitation services, memory support, personal care, respite care, retirement living, skilled nursing/short-term rehab, spiritual care and medical equipment. For more information, call 724.352.1571 or e-mail us here.

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Concordia Residents Take Part in Spin-Off of “The Newlywed Game”

A few months ago, a couple new residents to Concordia’s retirement community in Cabot, Bette and Dennis Miller, created “The Marriage Moments,” a production that mimicked the once-popular game show, “The Newlywed Game.” The game was held on Thursday, May 23 at 2 p.m. in the chapel at Haven II.  (Be sure to check out the pictures below!)

Six independent living couples participated in the afternoon question-and-answer game.  Some of the couples had been married for only a few years, while others had been for 50 or more.

Initially, the husbands left the room so their wives could answer questions about them. Then the tables were turned as the wives left the room so the men could answer questions about them.

Some of the five-point questions included:

  • What saying, tidbit of advice, or turn of phrase is he famous for saying?
  • At what volume does their husband snore?
  • Where is his favorite vacation spot?
  • What is her least favorite chore?
  • How many first cousins are on her side?

Finally, there was a bonus round where the couples chose which spouse would stay to answer the mystery question. The 25-point bonus question was “How many states has your spouse been in throughout his/her lifetime?”

Only one couple, Rev. Ken and Charlotte Hoener, answered correctly, which in turn won them the game. The question was simple for this couple, who, in their 50+ years of marriage had visited 49 states together! Their prize was a $50 gift certificate to the Hotel Saxonburg.

The audience was laughing at side-splitting volumes almost the entire length of the game. A round of applause was given to Bette Miller for creating, running and “hosting” this game show takeoff.

Bette and her husband, Dennis, have lived in the Concordia Haven Apartments since last October. The couple moved here from Spokane, Wash., where Bette worked for the CIA for 25 years and Dennis for the Department of Transportation as a civil engineer. Bette’s mother, Martha, is also a resident in Concordia’s retirement apartments.

For more information on Concordia’s worry-free retirement communities in Cabot, Pittsburgh or Copley, Ohio, visit the Retirement Living section of our website. You can also e-mail us here or call 724.352.1571 for general questions.

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Mom and Her Three Daughters All Part of the Concordia Family

For most people, there’s something inherently reassuring about being surrounded by family. After all, family is safe. Family is supportive. Family is fun (most of the time). But most of all, family is love.

At Concordia, our staff makes it a point to instill those feelings in our buildings and among those in our care – to foster a welcoming family environment.

But for some of those staff members, that fundamental family feeling has become a factual family affair. Just ask Oertel Care Center Activities Director Shirley Saeler… and her three daughters, who all work at the Cabot campus.

  • Shirley’s daughter Megan Wells started at Concordia at the Orchard in 2004, starting as a food service aide before transferring to the Cabot campus as a PTA.
  • Shirley started two years later, in 2006.
  • Shirley’s daughter Melissa Brestensky, a registered nurse at the Good Samaritan Hospice Cabot Unit, started in 2007.
  • Shirley’s daughter Jennifer Saeler, food service aide in Cabot, started in 2009.
Jennifer, Megan, Melissa and Shirley

Jennifer, Megan, Melissa and Shirley

So for those keeping score at home: 1 mom + 3 daughters = 4 Concordia at Cabot staff members. It’s a safe bet that on any given day, Shirley’s family is represented on the Cabot campus.

“My sisters set a high bar, so apparently I have big shoes to fill… luckily my shoe size is bigger than theirs,” Jennifer said with a laugh.

Interestingly, though, the four don’t see each other at work on a regular basis – Megan and Jennifer are the only two who work on the same floor. Coincidentally, the pair is often mistaken for twins.

Even if all four don’t cross paths every day, they all agree that it’s comforting to know that the others are nearby. And they all bring those family feelings – safe, supportive, fun and loving – to those they serve at Concordia on a daily basis.

The four all make time once or twice a week to get together outside of work. Jennifer is even going to school to follow in her “twin” sister’s footsteps as a physical therapist assistant. And, of course, she hopes Concordia is hiring after graduation.

“In the end all you’ll have in life is you’re family, so keep them close while you still have them around and enjoy each moment,” Shirley said.

While Shirley may be out of daughters to fill the ranks at Concordia (by the way, she has three sons too), Melissa and Megan have started the next generation of Concordia faithful: They each have one girl and Melissa has two boys.

We fully expect to see their resumes in 15 or 16 years. :)

Concordia is always looking for the next family of dedicated employees. For more information on working for Concordia and open positions, visit our Careers page. Or you can always e-mail us here.

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Concordia at Sumner “Parade of Homes” Showcases Design Options

This past Sunday, Concordia at Sumner, our Copley, Ohio retirement community, hosted an Open House with a twist. Its annual “Parade of Homes” featured the customary model apartments along with the homes of several of our residents who volunteered to open their homes to the public. Three resident Garden Apartments provided different styles of decorating, displaying a bit of each owner’s personality.

Betty Calvert has lived at Sumner since 2006. Her floor plan is labeled “Corner Brompton” and consists of 1214 sq. ft. Both bedrooms in her apartment are decorated with unique Asian white lacquer furniture purchased in California. And she has a collection of crosses that tell a story.

Living next door are the Hays. Karl and Ellen moved to their apartment – a two bedroom “Turret Bloomsbury” – about a year and a half ago. The minute you walk into the hallway entrance your eyes catch a throw on the couch picturing a family photo and the floor-to-ceiling windows that allow the sun to light the entire great room/kitchen area. A chandelier highlights the corner area and forces guests to focus on the ceiling, where a circular border provides a three-dimensional look.

At the other end of the corridor is Alma Smith, a former Pittsburgher who is one of the original independent living residents. Upon entering her apartment you see the kitchen and the great room with a bedroom to the right and a den area on the left. The floor plan is called a one bedroom deluxe “Chelsie” and covers 910 square feet. You can tell she’s an avid reader, as one entire wall is bookshelves.

Three Villa-dwellers opened their homes for tours as well. George and Bonnie Lyon and John Guinter have been neighbors since August of 2003. Even though their villas are next door to one another, their floors plans vary. George and Bonnie said they believe choosing Sumner to retire has been the best decision they could have made. And John, at 91, said he plans to stay where he is for another decade.

Concordia at Sumner is planning another Open House on Sunday, June 30 which will include a presentation on Health and Wellness. Call Director of Marketing Rowena Wilkins at 330.664.1289 for details or e-mail us here. In the meantime, check out some photos from the event below. Click on the thumbnail to see the full picture. Enjoy, and feel free to comment!

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2013 Concordia Fashion Show Raises Over $20,000

Some said “the best ever.”

Concordia’s 8th annual Fashion Show was held May 4 at the Butler Country Club. The event featured residents, staff and family as well as business partners as models, 50 gift baskets, 130 mystery bags and a dozen vendors who entertained more than 300 guests.

Reports show more than $22,000 was raised – which is more than ever before! All proceeds went to the Good Samaritan Endowment Fund, Concordia’s charity care fund. Fashions were by Kohl’s and La Perla, a boutique shop in Oakmont.

Special thanks to everyone who supported this event by volunteering, attending, donating or helping spread the word!

Below are some pictures and video from the event for your viewing pleasure. Take a look, leave a comment if you like!

 

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Concordia Calendar Portraits: The Orchard (May)

The theme of the 2013 Concordia Lutheran Ministries calendar is “Faithful Caring – Our Way of Life,” and each month offers a picture of a resident/patient with one of our dedicated caregivers. We thought it would be fun to tell the stories behind the models, in a series we’re calling Concordia Calendar Portraits. Enjoy!

Concordia at the Orchard, celebrating a decade of service to the Butler community this year, is featured in the 2013 Concordia calendar in the month of May.

Orchard Calendar PhotoMeet resident Millie Sutton and Resident Care Coordinator Anna Hildebrand, known around the Orchard as “The May Girls.” Millie lived in an apartment in Butler before she made her home on Concordia Way almost two years ago. She worked at Armco until she married.

“Back then,” she said, “they only let you work three months after you got married and then they laid you off.”

Her husband (who also worked there) and she had four children: two sons – one is superintendent of a school district in Iowa and the other is an architect in Pittsburgh; and two daughters – a nurse for Highmark and another who is retired in Missouri. She has eight grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. This former golfer said she likes everything at the Orchard, especially the people, and is very happy.

Anna Hildebrand has been part of the Concordia family for nearly two decades. Beginning her career as a certified nurse aide in Markus Hall (part of the Oertel Care Center, which is now the headquarters for Concordia Visiting Nurses) was a natural course of action, since both her grandmother and cousin were nurses. She took a leave to attend Lenape School of Practical Nursing and returned in 1996.

Anna has been married for 22 years and has two children. Helping others, touching lives – she continues her family’s tradition and it suits her perfectly. “My personal goal is to put 110 percent into caring for my residents at the Orchard,” she said. Anna loves to hunt and fish and spends a week each year with her family at Deep Creek.

A participating provider in Concordia Lutheran Ministries’ CARF-CCAC accredited Aging Services Network, Concordia at the Orchard is a personal care facility located on 40 acres in northern Butler County across from the Clearview Mall.

For more information on this beautiful Butler personal care facility, call 724.285.4490 or e-mail us here.

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Concordia Volunteers Recognized for Outstanding Service

“Don’t ever question the value of volunteers. Noah’s Ark was built by volunteers; the Titanic was built by professionals.” – Unknown

While we’re not sure who to credit for that quote, it does make you stop and think about the important work that volunteers do on a daily basis around the world. According to www.handsonnetwork.org, the largest network of local volunteer centers around the world, last year approximately 2.6 million volunteers contributed $579 million worth of service – and that’s just volunteers in their network!

At Concordia, our volunteers may not actually number in the millions, but the hundreds we do have seem to do the work of a million people, and we couldn’t be more grateful for each and every one of them.

Last week, which was officially National Volunteer Week nationwide, Concordia at Cabot held its annual Volunteer Appreciation Luncheon at the Haven 1 dining room. Around 160 volunteers who help around the campus, with Concordia Visiting Nurses and with Good Samaritan Hospice were thanked by President and CEO Keith Frndak and then served a delicious lunch by the Concordia staff members they selflessly assist every day.

Below are some photos from the event for you to take a look at and comment on if you like. And if you keep scrolling past the pictures, you’ll see some of the volunteer duties that are needed on a regular basis throughout Concordia Lutheran Ministries. If you or someone you know has a heart for volunteering, consider contacting one of our facilities to give a few hours of time. The great thing about volunteering is that it usually benefits the helper just as much as those who are helped – just in different ways.  :)

(Click each thumbnail photo to see the entire picture)

Concordia is always looking for interested community members to help in a number of areas. Our volunteers perform important and rewarding work, and can choose the duties, location and schedule most fitting to them. No prior experience is needed, just an open heart and the desire to change a life.

Volunteers contribute in many ways, including:

  • Music or dance talents
  • Helping with parties/special events/outings
  • Visiting patients/residents and wheelchair walks
  • Quilting and sewing various items
  • Pet Therapy visits
  • Recycling cans and newspaper
  • Office help
  • Delivering mail/papers
  • Light yardwork
  • Assisting with chapel services
  • And much more!

Those interested in volunteering should call one of the locations listed below and ask for volunteer opportunities. For more information on Concordia Lutheran Ministries, visit our website or e-mail us here.

Concordia at Cabot
134 Marwood Road
Cabot, PA 16023
Phone: (724) 352-1571

Concordia at Ridgewood Place
1460 Renton Avenue
Pittsburgh, PA 15239
Phone: (412) 798-1855

Concordia at the Orchard
104 Concordia Way
Butler, PA 16001
Phone: (724) 285-4490

Concordia at Rebecca Residence
3746 Cedar Ridge Road
Allison Park, PA 15101
Phone: (724) 444-0600

Good Samaritan Hospice
3500 Brooktree Road, Ste. 320
Wexford, PA 15090
Phone: (724) 933-8888

Concordia of the South Hills
1300 Bower Hill Road
Pittsburgh, PA 15243
Phone: (412) 278-1300

Concordia of Cranberry
10 Adams Ridge Boulevard
Mars, PA 16046
Phone: (724) 779-4300

Concordia of Fox Chapel
931 Route 910
Cheswick, PA 15024
Phone: (412) 767-5808

Concordia of Franklin Park
1600 Georgetowne Drive
Sewickley, PA  15143
Phone: (724) 935-1075

Concordia of Wexford
125 Brown Road
Wexford, PA  15090
Phone: (724) 935-1266

Concordia at Sumner
970 Sumner Parkway
Copley, OH 44321
Phone: (330) 664-1000

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Concordia Calendar Portraits: Cabot (April)

The theme of the 2013 Concordia Lutheran Ministries calendar is “Faithful Caring – Our Way of Life,” and each month offers a picture of a resident/patient with one of our dedicated caregivers. We thought it would be fun to tell the stories behind the models, in a series we’re calling Concordia Calendar Portraits. Enjoy!

Pastor Hartman and Ruth Frohn

Pastor Hartman and Ruth Frohn

April’s stars have probably known each other longer than any of those featured. Director of Chaplaincy Services Rev. Jack Hartman met Haven independent living resident Ruth Frohn in 2003 when her husband John needed skilled nursing care.

“When John was in Lund, Pastor Hartman ministered to him, to us, every day,” she said. “He would ask John about his new toys (he had a collection of walking, talking stuffed animals – which are now on display in Ruth’s apartment), or take him for ice cream at the snack shop.”

According to her, Rev. Hartman provided great comfort and spiritual guidance during the family’s time of mourning when John passed away.

The Frohns had moved from their condo in Murrysville when John’s health began to fail. The couple was among the first to make their home in the then brand new Haven III building. The Kansas native has lived from coast to coast and is a mother, grandmother and great grandma.

Pastor Hartman was called to Concordia 16 years ago. He has been a pastor since 1976, having graduated from Concordia Theological Seminary in St. Louis. His wife Michelle worked for Concordia Visiting Nurses and Good Samaritan Hospice, where she served as Clinical Director. They have three sons and two granddaughters.

He is full of Navy stories, as he spent most of his vocation in the military. When he is not preaching, you can be sure to find him at a baseball game, especially if the Pirates are playing. Regarding the Pirates, he says, “They are like a Charlie Brown Christmas tree; they need a lot of love!”

For more information on Concordia’s retirement communities, personal care facilities or skilled nursing/rehab services, visit our website, call us at 724.352.1571 or e-mail us here.

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Call to Care: Who You Bring To The Relationship – Part 2

Rev. Roger Nuerge

Rev. Roger Nuerge

Today’s post is from Concordia Chaplain Rev. Roger Nuerge and is part seven of the “Call to Care” series. Concordia’s Chaplaincy Department actively contributes to our residents’ well being.

In Chapter 4 of his book Don’t Sing Songs To A Heavy Heart, Dr. Kenneth Haughk says it is important to know who you bring to the relationship when caring for a suffering person.  He says you bring Jesus and yourself.  Jesus incarnates himself in you.  When you bring your self you bring your feelings, wounds and presence, which gain power when Jesus is in you.  In a previous blog we looked at Incarnating the Compassion of Christ; You and Your Feelings; and Feelings: An asset or a Liability?  Other insights follow.

Caregiving Fears

  • People fear saying the wrong thing and making matters worse.
  • People fear getting too close so that they hurt too.
  • People fear coming face-to- face with their own mortality.

Actually, it’s all right to feel anxious and be afraid.  In fact, you can use your anxieties and fears to help you.  They can help you know you need help.  They help you to know you need God, so the first thing to do is pray.  The second thing to do is to admit that you don’t have any answers to help, so just listen.  Listen to the person you are caring for, and while you listen, ask God to use you despite your fears, concerns and anxieties.  He will.

The Wounded Caregiver
Who is the wounded caregiver?  It’s you.  In his book The Wounded Healer, Henri Nouwen says that the wounded caregiver is one who embraces his own brokenness as he relates to one who is suffering.  In this book, Nouwen says the caring relationship is one where:

  • A person puts his own faith and doubt, his own hope and despair, his own light and darkness at the disposal of others to help them through the confusion of life.
  • Compassion is the core element of care giving.  Compassion knows that both the craving for love and the cruelty of the world are rooted in our own impulses.  For the compassionate person nothing human is alien: no joy, no sorrow, and no way of living or dying.
  • While compassion can bring you to the depths of loneliness, fear, doubt and pain so that you can care for another person in their suffering, it can also be a trap so that you end up focusing on your own pain so much that you end up caring more for yourself than caring for the other.

The Power Of Presence
This brings us back to Jesus, which is where we started.  When caring for a suffering person, it’s not the words you say that will be remembered or feels helpful.  It’s your presence.  Your presence alone communicates love, compassion and acceptance.  The human presence of caring and relating is incarnation, because Jesus is still there in you reaching out.  Nouwen says that if there is a posture that disturbs a suffering person, it is aloofness.

Your presence communicates more than words.  Your presence brings not only the gift of yourself into the relationship but also, in and through you, the gift of God.

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For more information on the spiritual care services offered at Concordia, visit us on the Web, e-mail here or call 724.352.1571.

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